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Friday, August 25, 2006
something that i have wanted to blog about but never really gotten down to it. well, it was a debate within myself and between leanna and i regarding the topic of gentlemeness. well, i have to admit, i should be the last person anyone would consider a gentleman. well, i guess this is because i generally do not like to go out of my way to do things for others, be it girl or guy, and i definitely definitely dislike carrying bags for women. urgh! i shall talk about two things i do not like to do and why am i not a gentlemen. one is fetching people to places that are out of the way. two is carrying bags for women.
shall start off with carrying bags for women. this is to all women who whine and complain about the heavy bags they carry with the hope that men will take to their hint and carry their bag for you. first of all, are you all handicapped? i mean you have two working hands and feet right? so why can't you carry it yourself? irregardless of how heavy it is, do not like complain about it and ask a guy to carry it for you. if a guy wants to carry it for ya, good for ya. but if not, then please quit whining. it is seriously, to me at least, a big pain to my ears. i will help if you are like physically handicapped, or you are an old elderly person whose muscles have already degenerated to the state where they tired out with carrying a 2kg bag for 5 seconds. people who do not fall under this category, please for pete's sake dun expect others to carry it for ya. unless the person or group you are with is in a big rush, then go ahead and impose ur belongings on them. seriously, i can't stand it when i go out and see guys carrying their girlfriend's bag. its like their girlfriend is weak, or their pretty hands would be disfigured from carrying it. ok, i have to admit, i was part of that group before, but on hindsight, it was really stupid of me for doing it.
another thing is like driving people arnd. i heard from one of my friend that he was begged from another person to fetch her home. furthermore, it was like on the other side of singapore. i mean come on, at that time, the public transport was still operational, it was the peak hour somemore. so are you telling me that taking public transport would cause ur make up to slip off? or is it that your pretty body can't take public transport? if it is out of the way, it is out of the way, dun beg and use ur feminine weakness to plead. can't stand it when women play their weakness to men in the hope that men will do things that benefit them. women ask for equality, then please show that you have some sense of equality. u want us to be fair, then be fair to us men rather then saying things that degrad men and makes use of us when it is to your benefit.
all of the above are opinions of my own and they are in no way directed to any specific persons. it is juz what i feel in general throughout my life and it is something i wish to get off my chest. like i said before, i am no gentleman. i am a nice guy, but not a gentleman. if you aren't too happy abt what i said, u are free to comment in my tag board, and if i feel like it, i will reply. if i feel like it.....
Speakth at... 11:43 PM
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